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5 tips for better dating
« on: May 16, 2007, 07:48:22 am »
   5 tips for better dating        There are no dating experts. Some people may think they are, but the truth is, we  all just try the best we know at dating and hope it works out OK. These dating tips  are just that - tips. These dating tips include things I've noticed cropping up again  and again, so I feel they must work for most people. I hope they work for you.    1. Preparation is everything when it comes to dating. Spend some time thinking  about your perfect mate. Know the type of person you are seeking. You will  have some disappointments, but some dates will be more than worth it too.  Be serious in your dating quest and you are likely to enjoy better success.    2. Get in shape before you start serious dating. The more attractive you look  physically, the better chance that you will appeal to others. OK, we're not all  perfect shapes, but make an attempt. Your dating experience will benefit, and  your dates will quietly thank you for it too.    3. Do you have the necessary confidence levels for serious dating?  You should. Overly shy people usually lose out, and overly bold people  can put others off them. Be confident in your dating, but not too brash  and bold. Your date will want someone quietly in control, but not too controlling.    4. Be realistic in your dating goals (you do have goals, don't you?).  Some men would like a stunning blonde Hollywood        starlet, but few get them. Some women yearn for a dark chiselled featured  handsome athletic type, but often accept someone quite normal. Dating should be  fun - not a quest for the perfect mate.    5. Don't throw yourself at your date. Hold something back. An element of  mystery and mystique can often be more fascinating than anything else. Don't be too  mysterious, but find a level that works. Dating is all about adventure, so let your  dating adventure be an exciting one.    The only other piece of advice I can give is to join a quality Internet  dating agency. They're free, and you should also post a photo profile if you  can. This is a way to build up your confidence and boost your spirits a bit.  You can practice your opening lines and chat up skills safely. Dating by Internet  is fun. It's safe and secure, and leads you into the world of real dating in an easy  gentle way.    Adult dating